I had been wondering how to explain the devastating impact that love can have on a person and finally decided to make this graph. It shows the ability of a person to control his own life before and after meeting the love of his life. The degree of control varies from “controlled” to “chaotic”. The rest is clear. I need to stress on the fact that even though at the end of the observed period the level of control rises it never gets to the initial high levels.
It is just that you are not the same person anymore. You have become a damaged copy of yourself with a variety of emotional issues you are never going to overcome.
That’s just the way life is.